失独者爱哀交加的情思活动及其反刍机制研究

通过扎根理论方法悬置失独研究中的哀伤视角，呈现失独心理的复杂内涵和动态机制。结果发现哀伤只是失独者的部分体验，失独心理是爱哀交加的复杂情思。失独者具有念好、牵挂和感伤三种情思活动，念好和牵挂均伴生爱体验，念好的基础思维是回忆，伴生爱惜之情，牵挂的基础思维是想象，伴生关爱之情；感伤的基础思维是比较，伴生哀体验。空闲、独处、旧环境是影响念好和牵挂的重要因素；人生期待、文化氛围、事件界定是影响感伤的重要因素。三种情思活动间存在反刍成瘾机制。

Research on Shiduers' Affection Activities with Love and Mourning and Its Rumination Mechanism

Through the suspension of the perspective of grief by the method of grounded theory, the complex connotation and dynamic mechanism of the psychology of shiduers are presented. It is found that sadness is only part of the experience of shiduers, and the psychology of shiduers is a complex feeling of love and mourning. Shiduers present three different kinds of affection activities: thinking of the goodness, being on the mind, and grieving. The first two are accompanied by love experience, but the thinking basis of thinking the goodness is recalling, with the cherished love for the child. The thinking basis of being on the mind is imaging, with the care for the child. The thinking basis of grieving is comparison, accompanied by mourning. The first two are mainly influenced by being idling, being alone, and staying in the old environment. Life expectation, cultural atmosphere, and event defining are the three important factors that directly affect the grieving process. There is an addictive rumination mechanism among the three kinds of affection activities.