| Abstract: | The difficult patient is here described as the one who does not readily accept the usual definitions of the treatment relationship and who tends to get the therapist to be overly-engaged in the therapeutic process. The therapist must be clear not only about his own characterological issues and counter-transference predispositions, but also about the unique propensity of these patients for the enactment of conflicts. While empathy is the sine qua non of our therapeutic work, the need to set limits and to address hostility should not be underestimated if these patients are to be engaged in any meaningful psychotherapy. To maintain an empathic perspective, the therapist must appreciate the purposefulness of the patient's defensive characterological behavior and that it cannot simply be dismissed as mere pathology. Such a perspective may help the therapist to better respond to the patient's behavior as a communication about his sense of self and his concerns about relatedness. This will facilitate the engagement process. |
