Social desirability in the bedroom: Role of approval motivation in sexual relationships

One-hundred and twelve unmarried participants completed a questionnaire that examined the relationship between gender and approval motivation (assessed by the Marlowe—Crowne Social Desirability Scale) and college students' stereotypes of and experiences with power in sexual encounters. Regardless of approval motivation, students described men as using power predominantly to have sex and women as using power predominantly to avoid having sex. However, interactions between need for approval and gender suggested that high-need-approval women might be having more experiences with sex and power in the bedroom than high-need-approval men. These results are discussed in light of Elkind's hypothesis that adolescent behavior conforms to an imaginary audience of peers and the Crowne-Marlowe model of approval motivation.An earlier version of this article was presented in the symposium Gender and Power Strategies: Contrasting Models and Applications, at the meeting of the American Psychological Association, Los Angeles, August 24–28, 1981. The authors wish to express appreciation to J. W. McCormick for his assistance with data analysis and to E. Allgeier for her helpful comments on a previous draft.