The emotional dynamics of funeral services

This paper explores how funerals are often restricted to a cognitive level and become exercises in denial based consolation. Clergy are responsible for addressing the emotional needs of the people gathered for the funeral. The issue is not whether or not we intervene buthow we intervene. Specific dynamics and opportunities in the family are examined and varied needs of other mourners are considered. The funeral is an intervention in the grief process. The funeral service has three essential functions. First, it is a proclamation of our faith. Secondly, the service speaks to the emotional needs of the grieving. Finally, the service is a recognition and celebration of the person's life.Dr. Lageman is a Fellow at the American Association of Pastoral Counselors and a Clinical Member of AAMFT.Valuable assistance in preparing this article was received from my colleague, Anne Nelson.     

The church and prevention of alcoholism

Conclusion The task of the church is to join a coalition for the improvement of community resources for the alcoholic through legislation and appropriation of funds; to train a task force of clergymen and lay counselors who are able to assist mental health professionals and A. A. members; and to communicate the Word of Reconciliation to those who are hungering and thirsting for the right life. We are able to help the alcoholic as he discovers new values and experiences without compulsive drinking. Clinebell summarizes the ministry of the church to the alcoholic when he points out: The most important thing a congregation must give a recovering alcoholic is a sense of acceptance in the fellowship. Such direct involvement in helping deeply troubled people forces a congregation to test the reality of its dedication to loving God and neighbor.⁴² May God help the church to be the church for the alcoholic.a pilot project sponsored by the Makiki Christian Church, is also a staff member of the Diamond Head Mental Health Clinic, a research and training facility cooperating with the University of Hawaii School of Medicine, Department of Psychiatry. He is a member of the American Psychological Association and the National Rehabilitation Association and an associate member of the Academy.